How to make a girl smile and love being around you all the time
Whether you’re looking to cheer up a friend, flirt with your crush, or just want to know how to make a girl smile, these are the tips for you.
You might think learning how to make a girl smile takes tons of practice or swagger, but in reality it isn’t all that difficult. All most girls want is for you to be genuine and a smile should pop right up.
But if you’re shy, nervous, or just don’t have much experience here are some surefire ways to get that smile.
Crack a smile yourself
Before we even get into the tips and tricks, smiling is a great way to get anyone to smile at you. Keep it friendly, not over the top or clown like. You don’t want to freak this girl out.
But if you aren’t much of a talker or just want to make a girl smile from afar, show off your pearly whites, and she most likely will crack a smile right back.
What is your end game?
Are you looking to date this girl? Are you trying to start a conversation? Or do you want to cheer up a friend? Knowing where this is all going is a great place to begin.
You may not want to go in with a joke if you’re trying to cheer up a sad friend, but a compliment could be perfect for another situation. So, think about the appropriateness of your attempt in your specific scenario.
This is an oldie but a goodie. A solid compliment can go a long way. But let’s start with a smile.
Keep it simple, you don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Saying something like “Wow, you look so nice tonight,” or even, “That dress looks amazing on you,” is classic. This doesn’t feel like you planned it out or came up with a clever saying. A good old fashioned compliment is always golden.
Offer her a hand
By this, I mean if she is struggling to get a waiter’s attention, taking a selfie with a friend, or anything along those lines, offer to help. This is a great intro to a smile, and even a bit of flirting or if you’re lucky, a full conversation.
This could even include helping her carry leftovers to the car or holding the door open for her. You don’t have to do something crazy to make a girl smile. Just a small act of kindness is all it takes.
Catch her eye
Flirting with your eyes can be considered a subtle art, and if you’re wondering how to make a girl smile, this is one great way to start. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll surely get a smile from her. All you have to do, whether across the room, bar, or nearby is make eye contact for no more than three seconds.
Continue to do this over a 20 minute or so period. If she smiles, giggles, gets flushed, she maybe interested. Most likely you’ve already gotten your smile without saying a word. Now you can go in and get a full on laugh.